I’m sick of magical worlds with no technology. I want fairy run coffee shops where you can get a latte with a shot of charisma, because you’ve got a big presentation you’re worried about, or witches working at Apple selling phones that automatically appear in your pocket if you accidentally leave it somewhere, or psychics running hair salons who always know how you want your hair to look, or aura reader therapists. I just really want normalized magic in modern society
fact: learning to love yourself with an audience through taking selfies in public and accepting praises of yourself out loud does wonders to your self-esteem and self-love
So I came across your levihan post and your reasons why you dont ship it , and I agree most people don't acknowledge Hanges non binary status and only categorize Hange as a female, but then i realized how can people draw Hange in a nsfw post without labeling Hange with a gender?
*sigh* ok, i know you probably didn’t mean any harm by this post, so i will try to explain this as best i can, but first things first you literally just asked “how can someone who identifies as neither/both genders have sex?” and that’s….pretty invasive. i mean, hanji is in fact a fictional character, so it doesn’t carry quite as much weight as asking that of a real human being, but asking a question like that is pretty rude.
in terms of “how can people draw nsfw”, you’re question also would imply you can’t imagine how sex could be portrayed between hanji and levi (or any character) unless they were given a female sex, which i think comes from the fact that you’ve confused “sex” with “gender”—sex is what’s between your legs, gender is how you identify and think of yourself. when these things match up, it is known as cisgendered (your genitalia matches your outward expressed gender). when they don’t match up, you are either transgendered or nonbinary (your genitalia is the “opposite” of how you feel/express your outward gender, or it doesn’t have a bearing on how you express your gender). this is a pretty big oversimplification of the matter for the sake of brevity, but i highly recommend looking the terms up for yourself, or seeing if you can find someone who is closer to the subject and willing to share their experiences (this may not always be the case and that is their right to want to keep it private/not want to talk about it).
anyways, the point of my post was not that hanji does not have a specific sex, but that their sex is usually assigned “female” by the fandom/shippers because hanji displays some characteristics that we consider feminine, and in a lot of cases, their nonbinary gender expression is reduced to strictly cisgendered femininity. and if there were an equal number of people who headcanoned that hanji was of male sex, and even male gender expression, it wouldn’t bother me so much, but that still leaves the problem of people imposing a singular gender expression on them.
so to sum up, sex does not equal gender, people assuming sex based on gender expression and perceived gendered traits is problematic, and both of these things are widely ignored by the fandom, which leads to questions like yours that boil down to “but how can i draw my porn if this isn’t the case??”
headcanon what you want, but always carefully consider WHY you headcanon hanji a specific sex, and further more, why it matters so much to you and the fandom.
also, be careful when donating to politicians.
I remember one time i donated 20 bucks to a democratic candidate around here and there was fine print on that page apparently that said the donation was recurring.
I never noticed, and that charge billed me 20 bucks a month until my debit card expired. When I found out about this, i checked the site, went through every contact form i could, and there was absolutely no way for me to cancel this payment.
they stole over 200 dollars. by the time the charge stopped that candidate had lost and they stopped campaigning.
read donation pages before clicking anything please
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so The Book of Life has a Mexican mariachi version of “I Will Wait” by fucking Mumford and Sons
this movie is a cinematic masterpiece
I was watching the Pachinko videos on YouTube and you’d assume this soccer match has Touji, Kensuke and Hikari against Asuka, Rei and Shinji, right?
So Shinji has the ball first, then he passes it to Rei, so naturally I assumed the next person was ….
Okay, being the wonderful angel athlete he is, obviously Kaworu would have some mad soccer skills but …wow. Kaworu, honey, you’re amazing but this isn’t fair to the lilin."HE WASN’T EVEN ON THE TEAM" - Touji probably